Understanding the Approach

What is Psychodynamic Therapy?

Psychodynamic therapy is a depth approach to healing. Rather than working only with the symptom on the surface, it looks at what is underneath — the early relationships, the experiences, and the feelings kept out of awareness that quietly shape how you think, feel, and relate now.

Much of what drives us lives below everyday awareness. A pattern that keeps repeating in your relationships, a reaction that feels far bigger than the moment that triggered it, a mood that settles in without an obvious cause — these often have roots that were laid down long ago, in experiences the mind has learned to keep out of view. Psychodynamic therapy gently brings those roots into the light, where they can finally change.

At Newmarket Therapy Centre, we hold this as whole-person work. The patterns you carry live not only in your thoughts but in your emotions, your relationships, and your body. We work with all of you — and the relationship with your therapist itself becomes one of the places real change takes hold. It is often woven together with approaches such as IFS, EFT, and somatic work.

The Whole-Person View

How psychodynamic therapy works

Psychodynamic therapy rests on a few core ideas — each one part of understanding the whole person, not just the presenting problem.

01

Looking beneath the symptom

The anxiety, the low mood, the pattern you cannot seem to break — these are often the surface of something deeper. We stay curious about what the symptom is protecting or pointing toward, rather than only trying to switch it off.

02

The past lives in the present

Early relationships shape the templates we carry for love, safety, and trust. When those templates no longer fit, they quietly run in the background. Seeing them clearly is the first step to living differently.

03

What is held out of awareness

The mind keeps some things out of view to protect us. Psychodynamic work gently makes the implicit explicit — so feelings and needs that were never safe to know can be felt, understood, and integrated.

04

Patterns repeat in relationships

The ways we relate tend to recur — including in the therapy room itself. Noticing these patterns as they happen, with a therapist who stays present and attuned, is where much of the insight and the change takes place.

05

Emotion given room

Beneath most long-standing difficulty are feelings that never had anywhere to go. When grief, anger, or longing are finally allowed and felt, the system no longer has to work so hard to keep them down.

06

Insight that becomes change

Understanding alone is not the goal. As awareness deepens and feelings move, the old patterns loosen their grip — and a more integrated, authentic way of being becomes possible.

The patterns that run deepest were formed in relationship — and it is in relationship, understood and felt all the way through, that they begin to change.

Newmarket Therapy Centre
Our Approach

How this work unfolds at Newmarket Therapy Centre

Psychodynamic therapy at Newmarket Therapy Centre is unhurried and relational. It moves at the pace of trust, giving space for what is underneath to surface in its own time.

  • 1

    A free intake call with Susan

    Our Client Care Manager will listen to what is bringing you in and match you with a therapist whose depth-oriented approach and relational fit are right for you.

  • 2

    Exploring your history and patterns

    Together you begin to trace how your current difficulties connect to earlier experiences and relationships — not to assign blame, but to understand where the patterns were formed.

  • 3

    Noticing what repeats

    As the work deepens, you and your therapist notice the patterns as they show up — in your life, and sometimes in the room itself. This is where insight becomes lived, rather than only understood.

  • 4

    Integration and lasting change

    As feelings are felt and patterns are seen all the way through, they loosen. What emerges is a steadier, more authentic sense of self that carries into your relationships and your life.

What this work helps with

Psychodynamic therapy is particularly valuable for long-standing patterns, and when earlier work has brought understanding but not yet lasting change.

Recurring Relationship Patterns
Long-Standing Depression
Chronic Anxiety
Low Self-Worth
Identity & Self-Understanding
Grief & Loss
Feeling Stuck
Emotional Numbness
Self-Sabotage
Difficulty with Intimacy
Life Transitions
A Sense of Emptiness

The benefits of psychodynamic therapy

  • Understanding the roots of recurring patterns
  • Lasting change rather than symptom management
  • Freedom from patterns that have repeated for years
  • Deeper self-understanding and self-compassion
  • Healthier, more satisfying relationships
  • Greater emotional depth and authenticity
  • A more integrated, grounded sense of self
  • Insight that keeps unfolding long after therapy

Our Registered Psychotherapists and Social Workers draw on psychodynamic and depth-oriented approaches as part of an integrative, whole-person approach to care. This work is available for individuals and adolescents, in person in Newmarket or online across Ontario.

Common Questions

Frequently asked questions

How is psychodynamic therapy different from CBT?
CBT is structured and focused on changing present-day thoughts and behaviours, and it can work quickly. Psychodynamic therapy goes deeper and is more open-ended — it explores where a pattern came from and what keeps it running beneath awareness. The two are not in competition; many people benefit from both, and our therapists often weave them together.
Do I have to talk about my childhood?
Not in any forced or formulaic way. The past matters only where it is alive in your present. Your therapist follows what is meaningful to you, at a pace that feels safe — there is no requirement to dig into anything before you are ready.
How long does psychodynamic therapy take?
Because it works at depth, psychodynamic therapy tends to be longer-term and more open-ended than skills-based approaches. That said, many people feel a meaningful shift well before the work is complete. Your therapist talks with you about pace and direction throughout.
Is it right for me if I have already tried therapy?
Often, yes. Psychodynamic therapy is frequently the right fit for people who understand their patterns but find that the patterns themselves have not changed. Working beneath the surface — with the feelings, the history, and the relationship in the room — can reach what talking about the problem alone could not.
Can I do this work online?
Yes. Psychodynamic therapy works well online and is available across Ontario, as well as in person at our Newmarket location.
Is it covered by insurance?
In most cases, yes. Our team includes Registered Psychotherapists and Registered Social Workers, both of which are covered by most extended health plans in Ontario — Sun Life, Manulife, Canada Life, Green Shield, Blue Cross, Desjardins, and others. Check your specific plan for coverage limits.
Take the First Step

Ready to understand the pattern?

Start with a free 20-minute call with Susan, our Client Care Manager. She will listen to what is bringing you in and personally match you with a depth-oriented therapist best suited to you.

  • 1 Book a free call
  • 2 Talk with Susan
  • 3 Meet your therapist
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